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Sometimes You Just Have To Jump……………

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Transition transition well that’s the latest. Hi readers its been a while and i feel like i abandoned you but i haven’t. In this life as i have mentioned in my past articles its not a dress rehearsal its the real deal. Its a one time shot. Life is what you make. We all have our fears and we all have our strengths yet sad it may be the things we fear the most have to do with change. Change is inevitable except for parking meters of course. One can not live life based on knowing what will be the outcome before they do it. Where is your sense of adventure. Life like in business is full of risks and uncertainities you won’t know unless you try.

The season of my life right now is jump and forget about the risks involved and take a leap of faith. Having a little faith goes a long way. Change is hard its uncomfortable yet, like a pair of new shoes after you have worn them several times you are in charge of them. So whatever it is that needs changing in your life or you need risking telling someone something that’s been on your heart for ages go ahead and just do it. Jump and figure out how you land whilst you jump. Take charge of the change in your life stop blaming everyone else, feeling sorry for yourself or being so negative or a pestimist and thing positive and go for it. You have the heart of a warrior fight don’t give in you have what it takes.

 

Your Host

Lady T

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October 11th, 2009 |



The Race

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In life’s fast lane you learn of gain, and learn of pain as you race towards the goals of life. Focus forward not looking left nor right lest you fall and trip and get set back on little things i call the stumbling blocks of life. Lack of clear communication is a stumbling block, when you communicate things make yourself or your intentions towards the particular subject very clear. A hard lesson i learnt is that i am human and to someone it may be yeah we know, but the real story is this i thought i was strong that nothing could shake me till i realised that, its not the shaking one is afraid of but how one reacts to it. In life’s fast lane there are so many things that can shake us, but we must be disciplined and learn to stand firm and ride out the storm, don’t stop the race because of the storms of life and the stumbling blocks, rather be committed knowing you are running the race of life and press on towards the goal knowing at the end a prize already awaits you.Do not be proud to admit your weaknesses rather learn from them and strengthen your frame in those areas by exercising extra caution and pressing on, even if people say you are doing it too much and you are pushing too much, remember this; your worth is far above rubies of course you must push, after all you were born to stand out so why try to fit in.. Its like running a race you know where your main focus should be don’t tire at the beginning of the race saving the best for last. I realised that i must train my mind and exercise discipline to it daily, sometimes as humans in the process of the race we are so afraid of stepping out and becoming all we can be because we are afraid to fall. Well know this falling is inevitable in the race of life, yet i always say its how well you rise after the fall that counts.Along the race of life there will be casualities know who to pick up and who not to, not every casualty is for you to pick up. Someone might say o how mean! But the reality is careful lest you become a casualty yourself.In the race at times learn to push the boundaries and test your abilitites have loads of fun while doing it, yet exercise caution and seek council as sometimes you may be convinced you are pushing in the right direction when you are not. Just because it feels right doesn’t make it right.

 My heart sank deeper and deeper as i felt as though the race was over i looked ahead of me and i felt the blood drain out of me, my heart beat so fast i thought it would pop. Then again i remembered no matter what focus, discipline and you can do it. In a split second i realsied that the race was more than just pushing any boundaries and focusing it was also about time management and allowing myself time to adjust, and get fit. The comes a time in life you have to stop all the games, get real with your life, stop going with the flow of all your friends, its time for you take a chance and breakaway , discover what else you have to give to the world. As i wrote in the legacy think of the ultimate gift you want to leave behind, you want to leave more than money, the ultimate gift the legacy, all part of the race of life.The race get fit get going and launch!

Love always

Your host

Lady T

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July 30th, 2009 |



THE LEGACY!

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The Legacy is the ultimate gift, the gift that allowed you to dream, to envision, to desire, to have a passion like you’ve never known.You have to live this life with a love so deep no words could ever express because life is a gift and when you leave this world you want to leave behind something that gives life, that is called the gift of giving, yet the ultimate gift, that where your heart is your treasure also is.

Everything in life is a gift depending on how you choose to see it, ‘the gift of work’, one has to work because one’s dreams cannot be fulfilled without working to bring them to life. ‘Money is a gift’. use it with wisdom and excute the best management of it, be able account for all you spend lest you lose it all. Friends, we all need friends, ‘friends are a gift’, they are likened to a feather take care and they will be so forever, don’t take them for granted, treasure the times you share, capture those moments before they are soon lost. The books of history are waiting for you but inorder to be a part of them you must have ‘the gift of learning’, to attain the knowledge with widsom that will help you fulfil your dreams leaving a legacy to others as you go down in the books of history and inspire many more to come. You don’t begin to live till you’ve lost everything.’The gift of problems’, the perfect place to start. At times we take life for granted its not till we have problems that we trully begin to cherrish our blessings and enjoy them and not take anything for granted. Family is the best gift life has to offer, family is not only your blood relatives, family are those that choose to be family, a rare gift to be treasured, love that comes from them could not be measured, nor compared, enjoy each other don’t waste it on senseless fights, life is but for a moment.Laughter, ‘laughter one of the most amazing gifts’, it keeps you refreshed, exercises your facial muscles leaving you with less rinkles, releases endorphins that make you feel good all over, besides that smiling brings out the beauty in you. One must be free, free to dream, ‘the gift of dreaming’, dream of something and act on it, some may say i don’t have a dream, but know this helping someone fulfil their dream in the process shall you find your dream. I love giving, the ‘gift of giving’ of your time, a listening ear, its an honour to do so, take the time to care and share, this journey, this life it can’t be done alone, everyone needs somebody. ‘The gift of gratitude’, be grateful for what you have give thanks choose to see the good and have a positive attitude, its good for the heart. What is your dream? The gift of a day. Don’t wait till tomorrow to tell someone you love them, don’t wait to enjoy life tomorrow or fulfil those dreams tomorrow, it may never come, take care of a day and watch it make a difference when you make the most of it. Finally ‘the gift of love’, love deeply, passionately,freely, go all out and do the best you can to be there for each, love is the most powerful gift money can never buy it.

The Ulitimate gift, the legacy

Enjoy………..

Love your host

Lady T

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July 1st, 2009 |



YOU ARE STRONGER

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Life’s long journey is interesting, it can be hard it can be easy depending on how you choose to see things. Yes at times we get dealt horrible blows stand to believe we will never recover, we trust ,we hope, we believe and yet things may never play out the way we thought they would. Must we give up for that very reason? No! Its our choice at the end of the day. We are all faced with hard and easy situations but all require choices. i have learnt to face my troubles head on whether i like them or not isn’t the issue as we are all human, but how we face them and the attitude we have is very crucial. You are stronger than you think you are you must have faith in you, you have to learn to push yourself and most important dream and follow your dreams,your heart, don’t let distractions throw you off the course of life’s race.  Focus is key, zoom into the one important thing in that season of your life if you have to. They call it having a one track mind. Surround yourselves with those that will impart wisdom, positive character, love, direction and will inspire you to greatness.Know what you want in this life and live a purpose filled life as you go after your dreams. Have passion in everything you do, do it with all your heart or don’t do it all. In the process of our choices please let us not use our emotions to make decisions but to  use our heads, because our emotions can change the course of direction at any moment if it suits them but they say wisdom, wisdom brings knowlegde and understanding.

P/S Smile one from you has been a while, you are all ace in my books. You are beautiful and victorious, you are more than a conqueror. When you fall get up and try again its ok because you have what it takes.

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Love your host

Lady T

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June 23rd, 2009 |



Standing Through The Storm

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Standing through the storm is a personal favourite of mine, because i know what it feels like to not know what to do or where to turn to. Human basic instinct is to fix things. The thing is what do you do? You pray to be granted the serenity and grace to change the things you can and to accept the things you can’t change as sometimes we may not always understand why. Giving up is not an option even though we may feel that way at times. A good friend of mine told me this morning something important that no matter what you never stop giving it your all in every situation and circumstance you have what it takes. When all is said and done take a stand. You have the heart of a warrior you are a Princess warrior, you are a warrior. It is not your size that counts in a fight its the size of the fight in you. You were born to stand out so why try to fit in. You are not just anybody you are somebody. I am here to tell you, you are special no matter what the world tells you. No matter what you are going through know you are not alone someone greater is watching over you He nor sleeps nor slumbers, 24/7 watch. Keep smiling and be blessed, stay tunned for more inspire posts in the next couple of weeks.

Love your host

Lady T

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June 16th, 2009 |



We Are Powerful Beyond Measure……………..

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As humans we can only hide in the shadows for so long or be who people expect us to be sooner or later that mask will fall off of its own free will and then when your director calls without the mask you have to give the performance of a lifetime and dazzle the audience but it has come from the inside because why should you try to fit in when you were born to stand out.In the arbitrary of life that you would be there at that particular time positioned right. For once i had to ask myself how do i define myself is it through my accomplishments, all the roles i play, a daughter, a friend, a sister, an adviser, an entrepreneur, a business woman the list is endless, but the fact is this when all the titles are stripped away who i’m i as a person. I am Thoko and i am amazing, and i can say that with confidence how many other people can?

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” by Marianne Williamson also quoted by Nelson Mandela.
When the mask comes down you must allow yourself to see who you really are and run that race set before not that you have already attained the goal but you hedge on forward towards the prize which Christ has already won for you in glory victory.‘Reveal me to me’ now that is what i call liberation when you finally stop chasing your shadow and allow yourself to see yourself bloom and glow.

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May 25th, 2009 |



Grace….Grace…….Unfolding

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An eagle is so graceful, woman so are you, an eagle is the one bird that will fly right through a storm with so much grace and strength so can you. We need grace to get us through each day, in everything we do, the way we talk or our attitude towards life with grace in our lives its something within our reach. Grace is something rare yet powerful and it starts with our attitudes and mindsets you need to renew your mind daily and have a fresh prospective on life. So…..May you spread your wings like an eagle and soar through the skies with grace everyday let it unfold gently as you soar towards your heart’s desires. I am confident you will i have faith in you , you just have to have faith in yourself….Go for it woman you can do it.Grace….Grace…Unfolding

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May 6th, 2009 |



What if……What if……. There’s beauty in the breaking

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Faced with what is technically right and what is actually right, i found it stole my peace to go with technically right versus the right thing to do. Ladies they say the truth sets you free and it is true unfortunately the definition of what we believe to set us free at times doesn’t necessarily seem that way.But being free doesn’t mean not getting in trouble or facing consequences that don’t make you happy. It means taking responsibility of your actions and facing up to whatever the consequences and even if people get very upset with you, even if you feel like you can’t go on anymore push!Finding that victory and peace within is far more valuable then anything. Be at peace and keep going don’t let the what if  of this world stop you from living your dream. You are bright, intelligent and always will be phenominal beautiful woman. When you break in a million pieces know this there is beauty in the making………..
 
Its not the fall that counts its how well you rise after the fall……..
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April 23rd, 2009 |



Beautiful….So…Beautiful

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You are fearfully and wonderfully made.You alone your design is intricate, it is original, no matter how much you resemble another human-being somewhere out there you are unique.You are beautiful and extravagant, from your head to the soles of your feet.Woman remember that! You are as elegant as a gazelle, gentle as a dove yet strong and powerful as a lioness you have the heart of a Queen, NO! you are a queen and you soar through every storm like an eagle with so much grace and you always come out victorious. You are blessed.
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April 14th, 2009 |



Dream, See, Live, Large!!!!!!!

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Always aim higher aspire to be all you can be. Don’t dispise the day of small beginnings for you are like a tree planted by the river whose waters never fail. Forget the past hedge forward woman you have what it takes. You are a woman of substance,  rich in heart  with knowledge, strength and character the rest of the world awaits your entrance, your loved ones applaud you. I applaud You are a Divine Diva

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April 6th, 2009 |



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